Let your professional musicians pick it for you! If you don’t have strong feelings about your wedding music, leave it up to their judgment. I have been playing weddings for years (over 300 of them!), and definitely have my favorite pieces. They sound perfect on the harp, and my love of this music shows in the way I perform it.
While the traditional music is beautiful, there are so many lesser-known selections that will make your wedding unique. If you have hired professionals, they will also be able to choose music that works well on their instruments, and fits your wedding theme, venue, and level of formality. I love it when a bride gives me the artistic freedom to create her wedding soundtrack!
If you have one or two selections that you must have played, your musicians should be able to recommend other pieces that work well with your choices.
When booking your musicians, ask them, “If I left it completely up to you, what music would you play for my ceremony?” At the very least, it will give you an idea of the music that your group likes to play, and they may just recommend the perfect piece of music to complete your wedding vision!